Acharya Prashant addresses the common human tendency to commit one's life and trust to random, average individuals, leading to inevitable disappointment and hurt. He explains that when people offer their fidelity to just any person, they are guilty of a form of infidelity to themselves. He argues that most people are simply average human beings who will act according to their nature, and it is foolish to expect them to fulfill high expectations or occupy the center of one's universe. He uses the metaphor of an elephant to illustrate that expecting an unworthy person to behave differently is as illogical as expecting an elephant to fly. He questions why individuals, especially those in their youthful prime, dedicate years of their lives to unworthy partners. He identifies the root causes of such behavior as loneliness, hormonal upsurges, cultural predispositions, peer pressure, and the influence of movies that promote the idea that a special person is necessary for a complete life. This often leads to a 'fear of missing out' (FOMO), causing people to rush into relationships that are neither holy nor meaningful. He emphasizes that spending years on an unworthy person is a self-created hell. Acharya Prashant advises that it is far safer and better to invest one's time and life in a cause, such as personal development or social welfare, rather than in a person. He asserts that a solitary existence is significantly better than being coupled with a mischief-maker. Finally, he explains that hurt arises from broken expectations, which occur because individuals look to others to provide what they should have achieved for themselves internally. He encourages self-reliance and finding fulfillment within rather than through the validation of another person.