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Freedom from compulsive need for company || Acharya Prashant (2020)
Breaking Free
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Spirituality
Loneliness
Companionship
Self-conquest
Relationships
Community
Buddha
Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the common concern that the spiritual journey is a lonely conquest. He explains that while the journey involves conquering the self, loneliness itself is something to be conquered. If the feeling of loneliness persists, it may drive an individual toward the company of undeserving people, which is contrary to spiritual growth. He points out that the mind is corrupted by the companionship of others and the world; therefore, depending on others to solve internal problems is often counterproductive. While a beginner might need a few companions for support and affirmation, as one progresses, the compulsive need for companionship drops away. This does not mean becoming a loner; rather, it allows for selfless and healthy connections that are no longer based on selfish needs. He further clarifies that a spiritual person is actually a community-oriented person, citing examples like a Rishi or the Buddha, who managed large organizations and interacted with many people. The concept of the world as one's family is only truly valid for the spiritual person, whose family becomes vast. Acharya Prashant highlights that as the self changes, the nature of love and relationships also transforms. This new form of love is free from expectations and the need to bind others in labels. He acknowledges that this can lead to resistance or misunderstanding from others who do not share the same objective, but emphasizes that the spiritual life is not devoid of color. Instead, it encompasses a much wider and brighter spectrum of experiences and emotions than the narrow life of a common householder.