Acharya Prashant addresses a young girl's question about why she gets nervous while expressing herself or talking to people, particularly in public speaking. He begins by engaging her in a conversation about her schoolwork to illustrate a point. He deduces that her nervousness is not about the act of speaking itself, but about the presence of the public. When she admits she would not be nervous speaking to a wall or a mirror, he highlights that the issue is the fear of being watched and judged. The speaker then probes deeper, asking why the comments of others matter so much. The girl replies that their comments tell her whether she is good or not. Acharya Prashant explains that this reveals a dependency on others for her sense of self-worth. He challenges this by asking who knows her better, her or others, to which she agrees it is herself. This establishes that she is in the best position to judge her own worth, and she should not trust others' opinions on this matter. He suggests that this tendency to rely on external validation is a learned behavior that needs to be dropped. He further clarifies by distinguishing between matters where others can be subject-matter experts—like a doctor for health or an electrician for wiring—and the matter of one's own being. In external matters like the technical quality of a speech, one can accept objective feedback. However, one's reality or being is not an external thing that anyone else can truly know or have the right to judge. He advises her to stop allowing others to interfere in matters of her core value. The more one is dependent on others for self-worth, the more one will be afraid of them. He concludes by stating that she is already good enough; while her actions can be improved, this does not mean her being is flawed. Believing the self needs improvement unnecessarily cultivates an inferiority complex.