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Don't ask for confidence, ask for fearlessness || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2015)
Acharya Prashant
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Fearlessness
Confidence
Fear
Duality
External Attainments
Spontaneity
State of Mind
Dependency
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that confidence and fear are essentially two names for the same state of mind, both rooted in a dependency on the world. Fear arises from the belief that something important gained from the world is at risk of being lost, while confidence is the belief that such things are not currently at risk. However, because confidence relies on external attainments and time, it inevitably turns into fear when those attainments are threatened. The speaker asserts that the basic preparation for fear is the thought that what the world gives is important. Therefore, confidence is merely a stage where the root of fear has not yet expressed itself as a full-grown tree. The speaker highlights that the need for confidence only arises in situations where one feels threatened or afraid, such as an interview or a confrontation. In natural, spontaneous situations with loved ones, confidence is unnecessary. He describes confidence as the shadow of fear and a disease that affects those who are fundamentally afraid. He points out that confidence often contains a subtle aggression because fear and violence are linked. Instead of seeking confidence, which is a false medicine, one should seek simple, spontaneous being and fearlessness. Fearlessness is distinguished from confidence as a state where fear is entirely absent. It arises when an individual realizes that nothing truly important can be lost and becomes indifferent to external gains or losses. Acharya Prashant concludes that as long as one gives importance to the opinions and offerings of the world, fear will persist. The more the mind is occupied with others and external validation, the more fear increases, leading to a futile demand for confidence. True freedom comes from reducing the world's significance in one's mind, leading to a state of fearlessness rather than a need for confidence.