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Emotional dependency and loneliness || Acharya Prashant, with IIT Bombay (2020)
Shakti
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Loneliness
Dependency
Ego
Incompleteness
Liberation
Vedant
Shri Krishna
Mahavir
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that loneliness and dependency are not superficial issues but stem from a fundamental sense of incompleteness inherent in the human condition. He asserts that every human being is born with a deep-seated belief that something is not quite right, leading to a lifelong, desperate attempt at rectification through the acquisition of knowledge, wealth, and relationships. This sense of imperfection is both biological, due to our physical limitations, and social, due to identities imposed upon us. Loneliness is essentially a cry for addition or amplification to feel 'okay,' a feeling that persists from infancy through old age because it is an existential problem rather than a situational one. He argues that the common ways of dealing with loneliness, such as seeking distractions or social company, are shallow and temporary. These methods act as antidepressants that merely keep the feeling at bay without addressing the root cause. True freedom from dependency and loneliness is only possible by transcending the ego-identified self. Acharya Prashant suggests that unless there is a possibility of liberation from the ego, life remains a cycle of anxiety and frustration. He invites the listener to explore spiritual scriptures and the teachings of great masters like Shri Krishna and Mahavir, which offer a higher fulfillment. By engaging with these profound teachings, one's perspective shifts from a desperate need to add people or things to a desire for purification and negation. Instead of being a 'beggar' for attention, an individual gains the power of discretion, choosing to remove the 'clutter' of unnecessary relationships and concepts from their mental space. This state of being is the opposite of loneliness; it is a position of immense power where one values the sanctity of their own mind and only allows what is truly significant to remain.