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The need to impress || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2012)
Acharya Prashant
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Communication
Expression
Impression
Psychology
Self-worth
Fear
English Language
Poverty of Mind
Description

Acharya Prashant discusses the psychological motivations behind the desire to learn and speak English, arguing that for many, it is driven by a need to impress others rather than a genuine interest in communication or literature. He distinguishes between expression, which is pure and uncorrupted, and the desire for impression, which shifts one's attention to the audience and causes the quality of content to deteriorate. He uses the example of a speaker whose words and content are valued over their accent or fluency, noting that true communication happens with ease and spontaneity when the desire to impress is absent. The speaker highlights how this obsession with impression manifests in social media behavior, such as using fake names, celebrity photos, or prestigious school names to appear 'big.' He suggests that this behavior reflects a 'poverty of the mind,' where an individual's self-worth is dependent on external approval. This psychological state leads to fear and nervousness, explaining why students who are comfortable speaking in private often choke or shiver when performing in front of a crowd. He asserts that the issue is not a lack of communication skills or vocabulary, but a mind that acts like a beggar, seeking sanction and verification from others. Finally, Acharya Prashant points out that most students already possess the necessary proficiency in English for practical and academic purposes, as evidenced by their ability to pass exams and understand lectures. He concludes that the primary reason students pursue English is often to cast a 'good impression' and gain social status. He warns that living a life focused on seeking approval through the eyes of others is a life of suffering and impoverishment, urging the audience to find completeness within themselves rather than relying on the validation of the crowd.