Acharya Prashant addresses the tendency to see faults in others but not in oneself. He advises that if you see a tendency in someone else, you should assume that you have it too. When it comess to faults, one should always say 'we', because you and the other person are one and the same. If you see a fault in someone, you should say, 'It is our fault,' because it is your fault as well. You can list a hundred bad things about someone—that they are lazy, tamasic, or a liar—but after that, you must add one more thing: 'Just as he is, so am I.' Conversely, when you see greatness in someone, you should say, 'That is his greatness,' and not claim it for yourself. You should acknowledge that you are still trapped in your ego, and their greatness can be an inspiration or a guide, but you should not make a false claim that you have also attained that greatness. When you point out others' faults, say 'our faults.' When you don't understand something, say 'we don't understand,' because how much do you really understand? This is not false humility; it is the truth. The speaker quotes Kabir Saheb, who said, 'When I went to see the bad, I found no one bad. When I searched my own heart, there was no one worse than me.' He also quotes Surdas, who said, 'Who is as crooked, wicked, and lustful as I am?' The higher a person is, the more easily they accept their faults and tendencies. Acharya Prashant further explains that a big heart is not enough to help others; great knowledge is also required. He gives the example of a drunkard trying to perform brain surgery on an accident victim. Without knowledge, even with the best intentions, one can cause great harm. He also recounts the story of the monkey who, out of love, tried to kill a fly on the king's nose with a sword, thereby killing the king. He emphasizes that dishonesty and unconsciousness are always choices. Nothing happens by accident, compulsion, or coincidence. Even intoxication needs your permission to take over. There is always another path available, but you choose the path of dishonesty, weakness, or unconsciousness. To truly help someone, you must descend to their level. An avatar is one who comes down to our level to help. A height that cannot come down is of no use.