Acharya Prashant explains that the feeling of needing to be in a relationship is a biological urge inherent in every creature of flesh and blood during its youth. He describes it as a purely physical phenomenon driven by Mother Nature, which wants individuals to find a partner from the opposite sex and, sooner or later, reproduce. He emphasizes that there is nothing mystical or from an unknown source about this feeling; it is a very obvious thing, comparable to the behavior of animals. The speaker points out that this feeling is directly linked to one's age and the physical stage of the body, which is why it becomes more intense around the age of 18 or 20. He dismisses the idea that this feeling is about jealousy or the need to share thoughts, stating that one can share thoughts with any friend. He asserts that these are attempts to give the biological urge a more respectable facade. He urges the questioner to be honest and recognize that the desire is fundamentally about sex, not about sharing emotions or thoughts. Acharya Prashant further elaborates that people, influenced by romantic narratives in movies, create a delusion around this urge, making it seem like a spiritual quest for a special someone who will complete them. He calls this a "storm of thoughts" that obfuscates the simple fact that it is an animalistic drive. He clarifies that he is not denigrating this urge or advocating for celibacy, acknowledging that it is an unavoidable and irresistible part of being an animal, mandated by our DNA. His central advice is to not be self-deluded. One must be very clear about what they are doing when they pursue this desire. It is crucial to know that this is an animal thing and nothing more. He cautions against believing that this urge is for a higher purpose like enlightenment, stressing the importance of knowing the nature of the urge before getting into anything, even if it feels irresistible.