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सच्चे दोस्त की पहचान || आचार्य प्रशांत (2024)
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Friendship
Truth
Money
Litmus Test
Relationships
Spirituality
Kabir Saheb
Bhagavad Gita
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses a questioner who tested a long-term friendship by asking for a loan, which resulted in the friend distancing himself. He explains that the very premise of using money as a litmus test for friendship is flawed. Financial transactions are unreliable indicators of a person's character or the depth of a bond, as giving or refusing money can depend on various external factors like personal wealth or temporary circumstances. Instead of asking for something material, Acharya Prashant suggests that the true test of any relationship is to offer the truth. A genuine friend is one who can withstand and welcome the truth, whereas those who resist it are not even friends to themselves. He further elaborates that truth acts as a natural filter in life. By consistently speaking and living the truth, individuals who are not meant to be in one's life will naturally distance themselves. He describes truth as a 'mosquito repellent' for falsehood; just as light scares away darkness, truth scares away those who are rooted in lies. He advises that we should not fear the breaking of relationships based on lies, as such bonds are inherently unstable. He emphasizes that anyone who cannot tolerate spiritual or essential truths is a danger to one's well-being. Ultimately, he encourages a disposition of giving rather than seeking, suggesting that we should offer truth and assistance to others without the ego of being a benefactor.