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The Best will not come to you as a result of your want || Acharya Prashant (2016)
Acharya Prashant
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9 years ago
Self-improvement
Ego
Personal Agenda
Essential
Priorities
Awareness
Group Dynamics
Betterment
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that self-improvement is often a deceptive process where the ego or 'self' disregards a greater, essential agenda to impose its own trivial priorities. He points out that when individuals focus on their personal agendas, they become oblivious to the wider context and the needs of others, which ultimately causes harm to both themselves and their relationships. Using the example of a drunkard, he illustrates that one's idea of 'betterment' is limited by their current state of mind; a drunkard's version of self-improvement would merely be seeking more or stronger intoxicants. Therefore, true progress does not come through personal wants but through the setting aside of those wants. He further demonstrates how the 'personal' dominates human behavior through live examples in the session. He observes that when a questioner speaks only to the teacher without ensuring the entire group can hear, they are acting out of a personal priority that ignores the collective. Similarly, listeners who do not speak up when they cannot hear are also trapped in their personal space, feeling unconcerned because the question is not 'theirs'. Acharya Prashant emphasizes that even minor distractions, such as worrying about a lost pen or physical urges, can become more important than the essential discussion at hand. He concludes that people are often unaware of how they prioritize the inessential over the essential, and that real clarity comes from recognizing these patterns of the personal ego.