Acharya Prashant responds to a young woman's confusion about love and relationships, particularly in the context of her parents' disapproval. He suggests that debating whether a particular feeling or relationship can be labeled as "love" is not the primary concern. Instead of focusing on the name, one should ask what the relationship is doing to them. He poses the question: does it just make you feel good as you are, or does it turn you into a better human being? Using the analogy of a pizza, which feels good but is not very useful, he explains that a relationship that feels good is not necessarily beneficial. The crucial point, he states, is to determine if the relationship is healthy, nurturing, and elevating. One must ask if it brings more clarity and maturity. If it does not, then it is not significant, even if it isn't evil. He identifies the boy's reaction of calling her selfish as a sign of attachment, which is not good for the mind. This attachment, he explains, is a fundamental human tendency of the ego, which needs to be understood rather than condemned. He points out that when one is body-identified, they look at the other as a body to be consumed, which is not love. This is why the boy dislikes being told they are "just friends," as he wants something more physical. Acharya Prashant advises the questioner to be alert to the impact the relationship has on both herself and the boy. He concludes that true friendship is about wishing the other well and helping them out of their attachments, not encouraging them, which would be a cause of misery for both.