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वासना: गलतियाँ और ग्लानि || आचार्य प्रशांत, वेदांत महोत्सव (2022)
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Lust
Responsibility
Purpose of Life
Meaningful Action
Idleness
Shri Krishna
Nature
Intoxication
Description

Acharya Prashant responds to a question about being troubled by lust and guilt from past mistakes. He begins by asking if one would remember lust if a fire broke out or a snake appeared. The answer is no, implying that lust only arises when there is no greater danger or purpose. He explains that the questioner is in a state where he feels safe, has free time, and lacks significant responsibilities. This idleness, coupled with a comfortable life—living with parents, having a secure government job with few hours, and no dependents—leaves him with excess, undirected energy that manifests as lust. The speaker clarifies that the solution is not to try to abandon lust but to take up something more significant. He uses an analogy: if you have 100 units of energy and only one task, which is lust, all 100 units will go there. However, if you have four or five other important and higher tasks, the energy gets distributed, and the proportion dedicated to lust diminishes. He criticizes the common ideal of a 'dream life'—a minimal-work government job, an ancestral home, and parental support—as a great misfortune because it leads to a life of indulgence and intoxication. Acharya Prashant further explains that for an animal, procreation is a physical act. But for a human, who is more mental, when physical indulgence is not possible, it turns into mental indulgence, i.e., lustful thoughts. The punishment for such a life is the inability to form healthy, easy relationships with the opposite sex, leading to discomfort and unease. The ultimate remedy, he suggests, is to take on responsibility. He advises the questioner to find a 'second job'—a higher, meaningful purpose or a 'master' to serve. This will engage his time and energy, leaving no room for lust. He relates this to Shri Krishna making Arjun 'dance' in the Kurukshetra war, which is a form of meaningful action. When engaged in such a great and necessary battle, there is no time for lust. The speaker concludes that the only way out is to find a higher purpose that consumes one's life.