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माता-पिता बच्चों की शादी के लिए इतने आतुर क्यों? || आचार्य प्रशांत (2019)
आचार्य प्रशांत
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Marriage
Purpose of Life
Parents
Adi Shankaracharya
Bhagat Singh
Loneliness
Dedication
Social Script
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that parents insist on their children's marriage because they observe that the children lack a meaningful purpose in life. Without a significant goal, the long span of seventy or eighty years becomes an unbearable burden to pass. Up to the age of thirty, life follows a scripted path of education and initial employment, which provides a temporary sense of direction. However, once settled in a job that often lacks personal interest or passion, individuals find themselves with excessive free time and no higher calling, making every moment feel like an hour. In such a state of aimlessness, marriage becomes a socially prescribed framework to fill the void and consume time through domestic complications and responsibilities. He further clarifies that if a person is deeply dedicated to a noble cause—be it social service, science, art, or spirituality—parents generally stop forcing marriage. He cites the examples of Adi Shankaracharya and Bhagat Singh, whose mothers eventually supported their paths because they saw their absolute commitment to a higher mission. The speaker emphasizes that the real issue is not the parents' insistence, but the absence of something 'great' or 'vast' in one's life. When a person lacks a grand purpose, they remain stuck in petty problems and societal scripts. Therefore, instead of questioning the parents, one should reflect on whether their life has a higher purpose that demands their full energy and devotion.