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Loneliness and Comparison || Acharya Prashant, with youth (2012)
Acharya Prashant
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Loneliness
Comparison
Nature of Mind
Identification
Guilt
Detachment
Self-Observation
Osho
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the common human tendencies of loneliness and comparison, explaining that the mind is naturally structured to avoid being alone and to constantly compare itself with others. He suggests that these tendencies are not inherently problematic; the real issue arises when one takes the mind's activities too seriously or identifies with them. He likens the mind to a small child that does not deserve to be taken seriously and advises against fighting its natural operations, as resistance only provides it with more strength. Instead, he encourages observing the mind's automatic machinery with a sense of detachment and a smile. He emphasizes that everyone experiences intrusive or unworthy thoughts and that feeling guilty or sinful because of them is unnecessary. Rather than trying to suppress or eliminate these thoughts, one should acknowledge them as the nature of the mind without associating one's identity with them. By standing apart and viewing the mind's mistakes as a joke, its energy to continue those patterns eventually diminishes. He concludes by echoing the sentiment that one should be a joke unto oneself, maintaining a lighthearted and cool perspective rather than a serious or guilty one, as everyone is fundamentally alright as they are.