Acharya Prashant explains that violence is related to anger. When you are angry, the possibility of violence increases, even if it's just kicking a stone. This anger arises because of unfulfilled expectations. There is someone or something from which you had an expectation, and when that expectation is not met, anger arises. This anger then manifests or explodes as overt or covert violence. The more you feel you need something from someone, the more violence there will be in that relationship. The world is increasingly becoming one where the emphasis is on consumption, on getting more and more from life. You are constantly being taught to enjoy, to suck everything out of life, to not let even a single drop be missed. However, this is not possible because what you want is limitless and beyond your capacity, and others also want the same. Therefore, your desire can never be fulfilled, and the result is violence. You are most violent towards those with whom you have a relationship of attachment, which you sometimes call love, but it is not. The explosion of violence is most terrible in these so-called love relationships because the expectations were very high. There are two types of relationships: one of love and one of desire. In any relationship you have based on desire, be careful, violence is present, even if you can't see it. The relationship of love is a completely different matter. The fundamental thing in a relationship of love is your own inner fulfillment. You are not connected to someone because you need something from them. Love means when you are connected to someone for no reason, selflessly. If there is a reason behind the relationship, then you are wanting something. Where there is wanting, there will be hatred, aversion, and violence. These are not coming in the future; they are already present. The diseases, the pathogens, are present right now, though the explosion may happen in the future.