Acharya Prashant begins by stating that some pains do not heal even with time. He recounts an incident from a camp in Pune where a man confessed that whenever he sees a girl, he feels like grabbing her. The speaker responded, "Son, you will grab her, but what will you do when she grabs you?" He then shares another example of men who boast about not getting emotionally involved, claiming they will just have sex and be free. He points out the irony when such men, who set out for a one-night stand, end up with three children. He advises that such flirtations and light-heartedness should be undertaken with careful consideration. Responding to a question about whether an intellectual connection is necessary before a physical one, the speaker emphatically agrees. He uses the analogy of a lotion bottle, pointing out that even for such a product, one reads the ingredients—the fine print—before applying it to the body. He argues that if one is so careful with a temporary item for the body, one must be even more careful with a person they intend to have a long-term relationship with. One must understand what is inside the other person before getting physically involved. He contrasts this with buying cheap street food where one is unaware of the ingredients. The speaker clarifies that he is not against physical relationships but emphasizes that they should not be the starting point. The problem is not the physical act itself, but entering into it with the wrong person out of unconsciousness. He warns against a "use and throw" mentality, stating that people are not as detached as they think. The desire to use someone indicates a lack of detachment. He explains that nature has intrinsically linked emotions with the body. When you enter into a physical relationship, emotions will inevitably get involved. What starts as a momentary mistake can lead to suffering for centuries. He describes how people who think they are just having a one-night stand end up in a lifelong mess, sitting cross-legged and praying for deliverance. He explains that emotions are a primal force, arising from the deep, dark caves of our being without reason, like a sudden wave. One cannot control them. Therefore, before touching someone, one must be very alert. Unconsciousness is the problem, not the act of touching. If, after conscious evaluation, a person is found to be suitable, then a physical relationship can follow naturally, like the tail of an elephant after the whole elephant has passed.