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Self-criticism and self-doubt, inspite of achieving much? || Acharya Prashant, with IIT-Kanpur(2023)
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Self-criticism
Self-doubt
Ego
Prakriti
Bhagavad Gita
Self-knowledge
Detachment
Liberation
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the issues of self-doubt and self-criticism by explaining that these feelings often arise from the ego's desire for perfection. He suggests that individuals should view themselves as impersonal processes within nature, much like a tree or a bird, rather than as a personal identity that must meet certain standards. By looking at oneself factually and without comparison, one can move past the shame of not meeting imaginary goals. He emphasizes that the ego often creates a false 'denominator' or target of perfection that has no basis in reality, leading to constant disappointment and distortion of facts. He further explains that greatness does not lie in achieving infinite productivity or being a top performer, but in doing what is right and being at the right place. He uses the analogy of a squirrel contributing to a bridge to show that the intention and choice to do the right thing are more important than the scale of the achievement. True self-knowledge requires relieving oneself of personal demands and expectations. When one is fully immersed in the right work, the problems of loneliness and concern for future results naturally disappear, leading to a state of inner coolness and liberation. Finally, Acharya Prashant advises that one should not judge themselves based on natural talents or performance levels, which are often gifts of nature. Instead, the only valid criteria for judgment are whether one had the wisdom to choose the right path and the courage to remain faithful to it. By detaching from the results and focusing on the rightness of the action itself, an individual can find beauty and joy regardless of whether they are a 'top performer' or not.