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FOMO: What are you really missing out on? || Acharya Prashant, in conversation (2021)
Breaking Free
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Fear of Missing Out
Honesty
Inquiry
Ego
Guru
Seeker
Truth
Enlightenment
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that the fear of missing out (FOMO) is an auspicious and necessary feeling if directed correctly. He argues that while everyone experiences this fear, most people focus on missing out on superficial things like social media updates, material wealth, or status. He emphasizes that we are actually missing out on our true potential, peace, truth, and simplicity. The real problem is not the lack of fear, but a lack of honesty and genuine inquiry into what we truly lack. He warns against spiritual teachers who falsely claim that individuals are already complete or perfect as they are, comparing such advice to a doctor telling a sick patient they are already healthy. This false comfort merely amuses the ego without providing real relief from suffering. Regarding the search for an authentic guru, Acharya Prashant asserts that one cannot find a real guru without first becoming a real seeker. He explains that charlatans thrive because the public lacks genuine inquiry and honest acknowledgment of their own internal suffering. If a seeker has no real 'thirst' for truth, they will be easily satisfied by superficiality and glamour. He notes that many popular gurus simply provide followers with the worldly ostentation and prestige they falsely desire. To distinguish the real from the fake, an individual must have a burning, life-defining question that they cannot live without solving. Without this honesty, one is not being fooled by a guru, but by their own ignorance and lack of inquiry. Acharya Prashant suggests that the concept of the 'guru' has been inflated into a mythical and often harmful figure. He advocates for bringing the guru down to earth and replacing the term with 'decent human being.' He argues that the goal should not be 'enlightenment,' which he dismisses as a puffed-up concept, but simply becoming a decent human being, which is a difficult and onerous task. He points out that the current state of society, plagued by various social and psychological diseases, is clear evidence of a lack of good teachers. He concludes that instead of sensational or melodramatic gurus, the world simply needs decent human beings who can act as genuine teachers of life.