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गृहस्थ जीवन की मर्यादा || आचार्य प्रशांत (2020)
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Love
Marriage
Maya
Peace
Liberation
Spirituality
Truth
Relationship
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses a question regarding the nature of love and marriage, specifically contrasting arranged marriages with love marriages. He explains that arranged marriages often stem from the 'maya' or illusions of family members, while love marriages arise from the mutual illusions of the couple. He argues that without a true understanding of love, both forms of marriage are essentially choices between different types of illusions. He critiques the common notion that love is natural or instinctive, asserting that while animals experience attachment and security, true love is a uniquely human and spiritual quality that requires maturity and self-awareness. He defines love as the mind's attraction toward peace and liberation, rather than a mere physical or emotional pull. He further elaborates that in many relationships, people use the label of love to justify bad behavior, emotional dumping, and the loss of formal respect. He challenges the idea that love means blindly agreeing with a partner or fulfilling their every desire. Instead, he posits that true love involves the responsibility of leading oneself and the other toward truth and freedom, even if it causes temporary discomfort or conflict. To love someone is to be honest with them, even when that honesty is perceived as egoism. Ultimately, Acharya Prashant emphasizes that love is a spiritual endeavor aimed at achieving 'Sahab'—a state of peace and liberation—and that any relationship that increases bondage rather than freedom is not rooted in genuine love.