Acharya Prashant begins by recounting an incident from a hotel in Goa, where he was awakened at 5 AM by the loud, bitter, and violent quarrel of a couple in another room. This experience, which he found dreadful, prompted a discussion with his companions on the fundamental question: why do couples fight? He questions the nature of relationships where two adults would be quarreling at such an hour, suggesting they were likely awake all night in an unpleasant state. This leads to a broader examination of the societal script that dictates life's progression through school, college, job, marriage, and children. The speaker challenges the very foundation of conventional relationships, particularly the man-woman dynamic. He questions why people feel the need to be permanently tied or 'welded' to a partner, arguing that if one has to tolerate someone, violence is an inevitable outcome. The discussion delves into the various utilities that relationships are thought to serve: biological (sexual needs, procreation), psychological (comfort, security), social (societal order, raising children), and economic. He points out that in a usual relationship, insecurity is often the force that brings people together, but the intention is merely to cover up this insecurity, which ultimately leads to conflict. In contrast, Acharya Prashant describes a spiritual relationship. He explains that while such a relationship also acknowledges the presence of insecurity, its core intention is to heal and challenge that insecurity, not to mask it. The central purpose of a spiritual relationship is the health, completion, and liberation of the Self. All other dimensions—biological, social, and economic—are subservient to this primary spiritual goal. He emphasizes that spiritual growth is not an optional indulgence but the very purpose for which one is born. He concludes by stating that any relationship that obstructs this fundamental function is a disservice. Using an analogy, he says one should not be so engrossed in a partner that they miss the beauty of the world, like a sunset, as demanding such exclusivity is a form of violence. He asserts that when you cage someone in a relationship, fights are inevitable. The solution is to liberate the other, which does not mean turning them into an enemy, but rather opening the door of the cage and allowing them freedom.