Acharya Prashant addresses the societal pressures of 'success' and 'settlement' often imposed by parents. He suggests that when parents ask about these terms, one should ask them to define them clearly. He argues that these concepts are often hollow or even repulsive when examined closely. He emphasizes that the only true goal of life, according to spiritual scriptures, is liberation. He warns that any tradition or social expectation that demands one to 'settle' or accept bondage in the name of truth is deceptive. True spirituality points toward liberation from all attachments, including liberation from the concept of God or Brahman itself. Regarding marriage, Acharya Prashant questions the underlying motives, such as social approval, fear of loneliness, or biological urges. He points out that most people live 'pre-scripted' lives dictated by society rather than original expressions of their own. He argues that bringing more children into an overpopulated world with dwindling resources is irresponsible and even sinful. He is not against marriage itself but against any bond that hinders liberation. He suggests that if one is already married, the partners should become friends and allies in seeking freedom from the institutionalized traps of the relationship, moving from being 'husband and wife' to being true companions.
