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जो धोखा देते हैं, उन्हें भी हम छोड़ क्यों नहीं पाते? || आचार्य प्रशांत (2020)
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Conditioning
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Acharya Prashant explains that individuals often struggle to leave harmful relationships with relatives, lovers, or gurus because they fail to understand how their internal identity is constructed. He uses the analogy of a piece of iron that, after staying near a magnet for a long time, develops magnetism itself. Similarly, humans are influenced by their surroundings and associations until those external influences penetrate their very being, becoming what they call 'I' or 'mine'. This internal encroachment makes letting go feel like a psychological death because the person is essentially trying to leave a part of themselves. He emphasizes that true spiritual progress requires enduring the pain of breaking these false identities, as this pain belongs only to the conditioned ego and not to one's true essence. He further discusses how our concepts of happiness and sorrow are often borrowed from society rather than being based on an absolute benchmark of joy. Most people settle for 'small' happiness or suppressed suffering because they compare themselves to others instead of seeking absolute joy. Acharya Prashant highlights that conditioning is sealed by the final thought that 'these thoughts are mine.' To break free, one must question this seal through the 'Who am I?' method, realizing that the contents of the mind change with time and are not the true self. He concludes that a liberated mind is like a mirror or a clean glass; it allows experiences to enter and leave without attachment, ensuring that past impressions do not corrupt the present moment.