Acharya Prashant addresses the issue of dealing with repeated failures by stating that one does not need an approach, but a dose of reality. He explains that any action is undertaken because of a pre-existing reason, which is a certain suffering. If one does not act, one suffers, and it is this suffering of inaction that compels one to act. The action itself is important, and without attempting it, one would feel a sense of hollowness. Therefore, the starting point is the realization: "I am suffering, that's why I am acting." When you act to relieve your suffering, the action demands a price, which includes failures and disappointments. This presents a choice between two kinds of suffering: the initial "mother suffering" of inaction, and the suffering that arises from the process of acting. The speaker asserts that the suffering of not acting is always greater, which is why one is impelled to act in the first place. Consequently, one must choose the lesser suffering, which is to continue acting despite the risks. He further refines this by advising to choose the "higher suffering." Since suffering is an inevitable part of life, one must suffer rightly for a worthy cause. Acharya Prashant emphasizes the importance of choosing one's goals and ambitions wisely and with great caution. One should not randomly throw oneself into something but must have a solid reason for starting. He warns that most things that tempt and attract us do not truly deserve to be pursued. When a goal is chosen with clarity and originates from the heart, it provides an inner inspiration that can overcome any obstacle. It is crucial to remember the "mother reality" that prompted the action. He concludes by stating that one should never expect a trouble-free ride. If a cause is worthy, it will inevitably come with many troubles and a high risk of failure. Worthy projects are sustained by innate inspiration, not by external support or validation. Therefore, it is essential to pick your goals with caution, discretion, and patience, knowing precisely why they deserve to be wanted. If a goal is not from the heart, the suffering along the path will become unbearable, leading one to drop out.
