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Is enlightenment more difficult for women? || Acharya Prashant, on Sri Ramakrishna (2015)
Scriptures and Saints
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Maya
Spirituality
Gender
Devotion
Scriptures
Conditioning
Shri Ramakrishna
Lalla
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that spiritual literature and scriptures have historically been addressed to men because men have traditionally shown a greater outward eagerness for systematic knowledge. He clarifies that while Truth is genderless, the approach to it depends on the mental conditioning of the seeker. He defines 'man' and 'woman' not just as physical bodies but as mental types: the masculine mind is quantitative and seeks to control many things through reasoning, while the feminine mind is qualitative, seeking depth and love in one thing. He notes that the path of devotion is often more natural for women, where scriptures carry less weight than personal connection. He describes the unique barriers faced by each gender. For a woman, the primary barrier is her deep identification with the body and the household, which symbolizes the physical self. This makes the beginning of her spiritual journey extremely difficult, as she must challenge her very identity as a woman. However, once this physical conditioning is overcome, the rest of her journey is relatively easy. Conversely, a man finds it easy to start the journey using logic and 'neti-neti' (negation), but he faces a massive barrier at the end: surrendering his own 'manly' ego and the instrument of his intellect. Acharya Prashant emphasizes that true spirituality involves transcending gender. A spiritual man develops a feminine tenderness and softness, losing his 'macho' aggression, while a spiritual woman gains a masculine directness and detachment, losing her 'womanly' coyness and physical obsession. He cites examples like Shri Ramakrishna, Mira, and Lalla to show that saints often embody qualities of the opposite gender. He points out that in Indian iconography, male deities like Shri Krishna often look feminine and gentle, while powerful female deities like Kali or Durga appear fierce and non-womanly, carrying weapons and destroying demons. Ultimately, he argues that a society that treats women as objects or confines them to the household prevents their spiritual emergence. He concludes that masculinity or femininity taken to their extremes results in an 'Asur' (demonic) state. True togetherness and spiritual progress are only possible when individuals stop looking at themselves and others through the lens of gender. To seek the Truth, both men and women must drop their internal gender-based conditioning and physical identities.