Acharya Prashant explains that the great loads on one's mind, such as issues with bank balance, relationships, fame, money, and security, do not come without one's own participation. He questions whether any of these things came into one's life without their consent, pointing out that it was the individual who signed the joining letter for the job or accepted the marriage proposal. The very things that were once celebrated and brought joy, like a new job or a partner who was the 'apple of your eye,' are now the source of suffering and something one feels 'allergic to.' The speaker asserts that one's current suffering is a result of their own past decisions. The crying exists because of wants that were fulfilled, rather than unfulfilled. Now, in a state of suffering, one develops a new want, thinking its fulfillment will bring relief, thus perpetuating a cycle. He asks the listener to acknowledge that their troubles are a product of their own choices. Even if one felt helpless in making a decision, they continue to maintain the status quo with their consent because their clever mind still perceives some benefit in the situation. He clarifies that spirituality is not about correcting oneself or making different decisions, but about dropping the assumption that 'you' can correct yourself. As long as one insists on deciding, they will continue to get the same results because the decisions come from the same flawed center. The problem is not the decision but the decider. Spirituality is innocence, which is synonymous with Truth and God. It is about accepting what is given, rather than the ego's constant striving to be the master of its own life. The more one invests in their decisions with the expectation of happiness, the greater the frustration when those decisions inevitably backfire.