Acharya Prashant addresses a woman's insecurity about her husband working with young and beautiful women. He begins by stating that this situation reflects a great poverty and lack of dignity in the relationship. If a relationship is weak and built on a foundation of sand, there is little one can do to save it. A relationship is meaningful and stable only when both partners are together out of their own understanding and free will, not due to any pressure or coercion. He explains that if the husband is not getting anything from the relationship, he will eventually leave, and she will not be able to stop him. What she calls possessiveness is actually insecurity and fear. He points out the lie in saying, "I am possessive, I have held my husband in my fist." The truth is the opposite: she is in her husband's fist because she is dependent on him in every way. This fear that her husband might leave is not love; it is merely a concern for her personal well-being. Acharya Prashant delves into the societal context of such marriages. Marriages are often based on looks. Men, who have focused on their careers, often seek beautiful wives. Women, knowing that their looks are their currency, may neglect their education and career, making them dependent. This is a losing bargain. After a few years and children, the woman's body changes, but the husband is still young and successful. He then gets attracted to other women. The wife is left with her children, her poverty, her weakness, and her insecurity. He cannot be stopped because the relationship was never based on equality or strength. His advice to women is to develop their own strength through knowledge, virtue, experience, and skill. This is their real power. The trade of beauty for security is a deal that does not last long. He emphasizes that a man is also a very clever being; he knows how to extract his self-interest and knows exactly what is useful to him in a woman's entire being, and for how long. When that utility ends, or when he finds something better elsewhere, the man, like a bee, will fly away. The woman will be left with nothing but her poverty, weakness, and children, unable to stop him.