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Single Women are Happier than Married Ones? || Acharya Prashant (2020)
Shakti
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Happiness
Relationships
Marriage
Singlehood
Wisdom
Decision-making
Mental Space
Integrity
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the notion that single women are happier than married ones, clarifying that happiness depends on the quality of the relationship and the wisdom behind the decision to enter it. He suggests that if studies show single people are happier, it reflects the poor quality of modern relationships and the ignorance with which people choose partners. Many enter relationships out of social pressure or a lack of self-awareness, leading to mutually destructive situations where both partners are discontented. He likens staying single to fasting, noting that it is better to have no food at all than to consume contaminated or stale food, which has become the cultural norm in many societies. He emphasizes that the objective of any relationship, and indeed of life itself, should be elevation, clarity, and spiritual growth. A mind seeking light will naturally evaluate all decisions—whether choosing a partner or a piece of cutlery—based on whether they lead to betterment or merely temporary excitement and illusory security. Acharya Prashant advises constant inquiry into why one is with a specific person and what that person brings to their life. He warns against the colonization of one's mental space, where another person assumes an exaggerated importance or begins to dominate through fear, greed, or accountability without consent. Ultimately, he explains that while people can change and relationships can be modified, one must have the integrity and courage to act when a relationship becomes unhealthy. He notes that intimate relationships often bring hidden internal 'garbage' to the surface, making it easy to sense when things are going wrong. The goal of human interaction must always be improvement and reaching one's fullest potential. Whether one is single or in a relationship is less important than having the wisdom to relate properly and the honesty to walk away or set boundaries when a connection becomes neurotic or stagnant.