Acharya Prashant explains that society views character primarily through the lens of sexual conduct because most people are sexually obsessed and cannot perceive others beyond their gender. He points out that human language and social structures are designed to immediately identify a person's sex, often prioritizing this information over their actual well-being or other qualities. This obsession is evident in everyday activities, such as booking airline tickets or filling out forms, where gender is mandatory even when irrelevant. He asserts that the mind, not the body, is the source of all attributes, including honesty, wisdom, and sexual desire. The body has no independent consciousness; it merely expresses what originates in the mind. He further argues that one's sexual behavior is inseparable from their overall character and life choices. The same mind that chooses a garment based on its appearance, texture, and social status will apply those same superficial criteria when choosing a partner. Acharya Prashant notes that many sages remained unmarried not because they opposed life, but because their values transcended the superficial standards of the general population. A person driven by sensory pleasure and social validation finds it impossible to truly relate to or love an enlightened being, as the latter does not fit into the common value system of physical attractiveness and material worth.