Acharya Prashant explains that egoic sex is driven by a sense of incompleteness, where the ego treats another person as an object for its own fulfillment, much like a commodity. He describes this state as either a transaction or exploitation because the ego is incapable of true love and only seeks to use others for its selfish ends. Consequently, egoic sex leads to the same disappointment found in all ego-driven pursuits, such as buying a new shirt that fails to satisfy. In contrast, he notes that egoless sex cannot be defined by techniques or stories because it is spontaneous and lacks a self-centered motive. It is a natural occurrence, similar to the wind blowing or grass growing, where there is no 'doer' seeking a specific result. He further clarifies that in spirituality, 'learning' actually means 'unlearning.' To learn love is to discard the ego's false definitions of it, such as attraction, attachment, and romance. He emphasizes that the ego always operates on calculations of profit and loss and cannot understand anything that happens without a cause or motive. A true disciple is one who is ready to dissolve their egoic notions and beliefs. Ultimately, when the ego is absent, actions become spontaneous and natural, free from the burden of seeking fulfillment through the exploitation of others.
