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रिश्ते बिना प्रेम के नहीं चल सकते || आचार्य प्रशांत (2019)
आचार्य प्रशांत
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6 years ago
Love
Relationships
Well-being
Responsibility
Consumerism
Marriage
Attachment
Security
Description

Acharya Prashant addresses the dilemma of physical proximity versus emotional distance in relationships, specifically regarding a daughter's desire to move away from her father. He clarifies that the core issue is not the physical location or the act of moving, but the quality and presence of love within the relationship. Love is not defined by physical attachment or 'clinging'; rather, it is a committed resolution to seek the well-being of the other. If genuine love exists, it provides the security and strength to allow for physical distance without fear or insecurity. Conversely, in the absence of love, physical closeness often leads to conflict and the masking of toxicity with superficial justifications. He further explains that love is the responsibility of the individual and cannot be expected to arise spontaneously from others or from selfish motives. He critiques the common tendency to disguise personal desires and social conditioning as concern for another's welfare. For instance, parents may push for a child's marriage under the guise of 'benefit' when they are actually seeking their own entertainment or social security. Acharya Prashant equates such transactional relationships and the pursuit of physical gratification in marriage to a form of consumerism, where people treat each other as objects for consumption rather than engaging in a relationship based on true well-being.