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अभिभावकों का कहना मानें या नहीं? || आचार्य प्रशांत, युवाओं के संग (2014)
आचार्य प्रशांत
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Love
Freedom
Relationships
Independence
Maturity
Friendship
Trade
Growth
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that life is a continuous flow where nothing remains static, and relationships must evolve with time to remain authentic. He uses the analogy of a bird and its egg to illustrate that while a mother bird sits on the egg to provide warmth, she must change her behavior once the chick hatches and eventually allow it to fly away. If she continues to sit on the chick as she did on the egg, it would lead to death rather than life. True love, he asserts, is found in the freshness of the present moment and requires the relationship to adapt as individuals grow. He emphasizes that once children reach adulthood, the relationship with parents should transition into a friendship between equals, rather than maintaining a dynamic of dependency or control. He further clarifies that love is synonymous with freedom, not bondage. Using the example of his two dogs, Koham and Soham, he describes how keeping them confined made them restless and unhappy, but granting them complete freedom to roam resulted in a deeper, voluntary bond where they return out of choice and affection. Acharya Prashant warns that any relationship that demands obedience in exchange for security or needs is not love, but a business transaction or trade. He advises that if one feels their freedom is being sold for minor comforts, they must evaluate the cost of the deal. If the loss of independence outweighs the benefits, one should have the courage to end such a disadvantageous trade and reclaim their freedom.