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Emotional dependency and loneliness || Acharya Prashant (2020)
Breaking Free
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Loneliness
Dependency
Ego
Incompleteness
Vedant
Liberation
Spirituality
Existentialism
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that loneliness and dependency are not superficial issues but stem from a fundamental sense of incompleteness inherent in human existence. He asserts that humans are born with a deep-seated belief that they are imperfect or 'incorrect,' which drives them to seek external validation, relationships, and material acquisitions. This existential dissatisfaction is present from birth, as seen in an infant's need for constant presence and warmth. He argues that all forms of dependency—whether emotional, financial, or physical—are essentially the same, arising from the ego's attempt to rectify its perceived shoddiness through addition and amplification. To overcome these challenges, Acharya Prashant suggests that one must move beyond the body-identified and socially-identified ego. He warns that shallow distractions, such as social gatherings or entertainment, only provide temporary relief and act as antidepressants for an existentially depressed state. The real solution lies in spiritual liberation through the study of scriptures and the teachings of enlightened figures like Shri Krishna, Mahavir, and various Rishis. By engaging with these higher dimensions of wisdom, an individual's perspective shifts from a desperate need to add people to their life to a desire for purification and negation. Ultimately, the speaker describes a state of empowerment where one no longer begs for company but instead exercises discretion over their mental and physical space. This transformation involves 'subtracting' unnecessary influences and clutter to make room for something immense and sacred. Rather than being haunted by loneliness, the individual gains the power to evict 'pests'—meaningless relationships and concepts—and finds fulfillment in a higher company that renders worldly dependency obsolete.