Acharya Prashant addresses the question of the importance of a man in a woman's life, particularly for unmarried women. He establishes a priority order, asserting that a man should come after many other, more significant things. He lists knowledge, courage, skill, experience, and the pursuit of knowing life as far more important than any man. To illustrate, he suggests that if a woman has read only five books but has had ten men in her life, her priorities are misplaced. The importance of good books, he argues, should far exceed that of any man, and he can list at least ten to twenty things that should take precedence. The speaker contends that a woman is not born for a man; she is a human being whose life goals should be the same as any other human's—goals that bring dignity. He finds it strange that society sets high aspirations for men, such as becoming a president or a scientist, while a woman's primary goal is often reduced to finding a man. He discusses societal conditioning, referencing the Japanese term "unsold Christmas cakes" for unmarried women over 25, which he calls a brilliant way to describe how society views a woman's existence. He also points to statistics on child marriage in India as evidence that a girl is primarily seen as an object for marriage, with her existence not valued beyond that. Acharya Prashant explains that this societal view stems from a violent and selfish human nature that exploits everything for its own benefit, including other humans. He uses an analogy of a shepherd hypnotizing his sheep into believing they are lionesses, thereby making them complicit in their own slaughter. Similarly, women are conditioned to accept their subjugation. The problem, he clarifies, is not what society says, but that women internalize these views. He criticizes the idea that a woman is incomplete without a "better half" and points out the hypocrisy in society's expectations. He further deconstructs the societal definition of a woman's "character," which is often narrowly focused on her sexuality and chastity. He contrasts this with the teachings of the sages, who located character in the mind and intellect. The highest values for any human, including a woman, should be knowledge (bodh) and liberation (mukti). He urges women to stop caring about societal labels like "characterless" and to not sell their freedom. To move forward, a woman must ignore these pressures, develop her own strength, and take responsibility for her own life and liberation.