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How to get rid of attachments? || Acharya Prashant (2019)
Acharya Prashant
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Attachment
Body
Identification
Fulfillment
Investment
Security
Dissatisfaction
Self
Description

Acharya Prashant explains that attachment is not something that clings to us; rather, we actively go toward things, thoughts, and people to clutch them in a search for security. He distinguishes between the needs of the body and the interests of the self, noting that while the body has necessary demands like hunger and sleep, these are not fundamental to one's inner joy. He argues that the interests of the self and the body are often divergent, as the body seeks physical relaxation while the self seeks fulfillment. Wrong identification with the body leads to the mistake of seeking satisfaction in what the body wants, which inevitably results in dissatisfaction. He describes attachment as both a mistake and its own punishment, suggesting that it should be viewed as a bad investment that fails to yield meaningful returns. Acharya Prashant encourages an objective evaluation of the 'Return on Investment' (ROI) for our attachments. While material investments are measured in money, investments in relationships and personal life must be measured by inner fulfillment and contentment. If an attachment does not bring fulfillment, it is unwise to continue it. He concludes by using the analogy of a father and a child: the body is like a child playing with a ball. While the father (the self) should watch over and support the child to ensure safety, he should not become foolishly attached to the ball or start mimicking the child's behavior.