A questioner shares the story of his childhood friend who recently passed away at the age of 38 from a heart attack, which he attributes to stress from career ambitions and family pressures. He feels it was a 'murder' by societal influences. He asks Acharya Prashant for guidance on how to be more responsible for one's influence on others. Acharya Prashant responds that this is the very thing he is afraid of and is trying his best to prevent. He states that we are all in great danger and are putting each other in danger. Addressing the audience, he says a sword is hanging over everyone's head. He clarifies that there is no external enemy; we are our own enemies, and the people we consider our loved ones are also our enemies. If someone murders another, there is a legal punishment, but if someone ruins another's life by being their loved one, there is no punishment in any law. He gives the example of parents ruining a child's life or a spouse ruining their partner's. A slap might bring the police, but ruining a life goes unpunished. He connects major diseases like hypertension, cardiac disease, and diabetes to a poor state of mind, which is influenced by the people around us. The people who influence our minds the most are those closest to us. He describes this dynamic as a cycle: "You ruin me, I will ruin you," which we call a relationship. He points out that India is the heart attack, diabetes, and hypertension capital of the world, yet it is also the place where relationships are considered the strongest. He advises to first accept that our closest ones are our enemies, a heartbreaking but necessary realization. Then, one must have the courage to say, "I know my closest one is my enemy, but I will still have compassion. I will not abandon them. They are my enemy, but I will not show enmity." Acharya Prashant urges to abandon the delusion that people close to us love us, stating they are incapable of it as they do not know what love is. He says that 99% of people cannot love anyone, including themselves. He advises accepting that we haven't received love without playing the victim. The most meaningful revenge for the hurt received is to become capable of giving real love, not the fake, transactional kind. He concludes by saying, "Don't wait for a calamity to happen; the calamity is already happening. Wake up now."